Precise personality traits are difficult to pin down for middle borns. Because of this, middle borns tend to be mysterious. They tend to go in the exact opposite direction from the first born. Any time a second-born child enters the family, his life-style is determined by his perception of his older sibling. Middle borns are independent but with extreme loyalty to his/her peer group. Middle borns tend to be mediators and/or negotiators who avoid conflict. They tend to feel left out, ignored and sometimes even insulted.